Frequently Asked Questions
Why is it people think that someone who talks about suicide won't do it?
This is a very common myth that circulates. In truth, most people who attempt suicide have talked about it or displayed some type of warning sign beforehand. This does not mean that it is your fault because you didn't see the warning signs, most of the time, these signs are seen in hindsight.
Is it dangerous to mention suicide to a depressed person, because it may give them the idea?
Allowing a depressed person talk about their suicidal feelings can bring about a great sense of relief. This does not mean that a person is "all better" because they talked about it.
Isn't suicide often a spontaneous act?
When someone has killed themself, it is something that they have been thinking about for awhile. To end your life means you are in extreme pain, it is not a decision that you make quickly.
Since my loved one is no longer depressed and they suddenly seem improved and happier, there is no longer a reason to be concerned?
This is the time that you need to be the most concerned. Very often people who have made the decision to kill themselves have been seen as being "better" before their death because they seem happy. This is when they have decided to kill themselves and they have the energy to carry out their plans, feeling a sense of relief that the pain will soon be over.
Is it true that suicide rates are the highest during the holidays?
Suicide rates are actually the highest in the season change, spring leading into summer.
Isn't it a betrayal of trust if I break a secret and tell about someone's suicide plan?
It is never a betrayal to help someone be safe and alive. Just think about it, if your friend gets mad at least they are alive and they know someone cares.
Are people who attempt suicide "crazy"?
No, anyone could attempt suicide. Suicide does not have any boundaries.
